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by Kmeron

Question by KG:

Husband sleeping instantly-Missing sex with wife-Wife will not even pat me even when she wants sex. V fight?

I have been an early sleeper and also sleep the moment i hit bed. It has been the way for along time since i can remember. My wife is the opposite, she sleeps late. So we had great quarrels saying that i sleep without any considerations for her. During those period of my early sleeping days, she would try to make me stay late but i never was able to. It took me a few years to change the early sleeping habit (we are married for 4 years).

But my instant sleeping is still with me. Now if we both go to bed and my son is awake, i sleep sooner than my son. Even though i want to have sex, sleep overtakes it.My wife would also want to have sex but she would not bother to even pat a little or touch me to wake me up. These days i can wake just at a small sound or touch.

She says that shes done with all the initiating during my early sleep days and she no longer will wake me up. she says shes hurt by those days were i slept early and she tried keep me awake. Even if she wants sex she would not touch me. I agree that shes of such type and i am ok with it and ready it initiate it all the time by myself.

But by the middle of the night, my sleeping would have caused a rage in her and then she will wake me and say ' You are bad humand/husband that sleeps off without any considerations for her'. If we are awake definitely we will end up having sex.

I try not to go to bed when all 3 of us are awake. but many times we all end up going to the bed at the same time. Hence it has become a serious issue. Sometimes i have waked up in the middle and we have had sex. Otherwise i would just sleep off and get up only in the morning and during sleep i sleep with face down and hence would rarely be sleeping with my hands on my wife. She wants to feel my hand on her during sleep.

Also she feels that it is night that is the appropriate time for sex. After my son goes to school, i try to initiate sex and she feels that it is wrong time and that i should be better going to office and having sex at time, shez very uncomfortable.

Is this normal or what should i do ? every now and then we have a fight on this and it is screwing marriage heavily.




Best answer:

Answer by TheOne
You need to get out the calender and set a time for sex.

Try that for a while.

Otherwise, you not have sex.

A lot of couples have the same problem and have to schedule their sex.

Peace.

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